Online coffee-dates and other ways to stay socially active when remoting

Published: 26.10.2021
Author: Zane Ābelīte, Communications and Brand Manager
Categories: Culture
Reading time: 5 min
Illustrated coffee cup from above

Whether it is one's free choice or a necessity, the hybrid working model is here to stay. And as we can work from anywhere, we also can socialize from anywhere. Let us share some tips and ideas on how to stay socially connected with friends and colleagues without being in the same room.

Remote work has become the "new normal" way of working for many companies. Countless tools and technologies help us collaborate and raise our productivity. Also, at Wunder, remote working has always been a significant part of our DNA and doesn't raise many questions, but how about one's social life? Is there a term "remote socializing"? We dare to declare that there is! And we strongly believe that one's social life shouldn't be crossed out of the daily routine just because of the physical location. And we also dare to say that there are plenty of things you can do still together with your friends and colleagues without being in the same room. I will share some of the thoughts and ideas here at Wunder, but let me start with some truths first.

The truth behind the remoting

It is a truth that in most traditional companies, you can wander into the kitchen or lunch area to enjoy the change of scenery and have water cooler conversations with your peers. In Wunder’s case, we have to take into account that the company is spread across 3 countries and 6 offices, therefore, unfortunately, some kitchens feel fairly lonesome, even more, if working remotely.

Another truth - usually, we are very focused when working remotely - we tend to avoid any non-professional interruptions, and put our meetings into strict time-boxes. This is all great for productivity. But it hardly provides space and time to get to know each other better on a personal level, and on professional aspects that are not directly related to the project you are working on together.

And last but not least, investing in face-to-face time deepens our professional and personal relationships which as well benefit from the business point of view. You gain a way better understanding of your colleagues and build a trustful and respectful relationship which can be a huge time-saver (and sometimes even a life-saver) when working on a team.

Considering all these truths we really encourage our Wunderers to strengthen their personal connections, even more, if they choose to work remotely. There are several ways how we “bring people together”, but the one I'd love to share this time is The Coffee Time initiative or in other words - a simple solution on how to stay in touch as a distributed One Company.

Wunder Coffee Time

The Coffee Time initiative at Wunder was invented back in 2017. It was after the WunderCon (our annual company-wide gathering) where all 130+ Wunderers had a chance to spend a few marvelous days side by side with their teammates. Catching up with old colleagues and getting to know the new ones is always amazing. To keep up the team spirit and feeling of togetherness also after the event, one of our Wunderers came up with a solution. He created a special channel in our Slackopens in a new tab workspace and used a pairing app Donutopens in a new tab to arrange regular half-an-hour meetings for those willing to strengthen the connections across the company.

How does it work?

It's fairly simple:

  • everyone interested in the activity makes sure they are following the #coffee-time channel on Slack
  • every member of this channel gets paired every other week with someone else
  • paired persons arrange a coffee call somewhen during the upcoming 2 weeks and
  • enjoy a conversation over a cup of coffee or tea

If people are busy or accidentally forget about the meeting, Donut is there to remind about that.

What do we talk about?

Practically everything, but work itself. Sure, one can find out what the other person is doing at the company or currently working on, but most of all this is a time to get to know each other as a person. Hobbies and interests, life learnings and hacks, favorite movies and books, all that you can think of to talk with a friend.

Coffee time in numbers


made of all time


 met in all time


Wunderers participated the activity at least once

Time to think outside the box

But hey, you don't need a special app or tool to stay socially active even if living alone in the middle of the forest! Use your imagination and soon enough you will come up with genius ideas on how to keep doing the things that you love and who knows - will discover a completely different angle on your favorite activities. Here come some remote socializing suggestions from our Wunderers:

  • Set coffee/ lunch or even dinner dates - just like you use to meet friends over a coffee, set a time for a Zoomopens in a new tab (or similar app) call and have a coffee or even a meal together.
  • Organize a movie night with your friends by using Kastopens in a new tab or a similar app.
  • Stay active - call your trainer and ask if she/he can make an online training session.
  • Set an online book club - organize online reading sessions and share the findings afterward.
  • Play games online and use Discordopens in a new tab to stay in touch with your peers.
    Learn something new - MOOC sites like Courseraopens in a new tab, Udemyopens in a new tab and similar offer thousands of great topics to study. Choose the ones with a peer-learning opportunity to have more interaction with other course mates or invite a friend to join the course and do your homework together.
  • Challenge your friends - create a closed group and set up a challenge of the day/ week/ month. Share fun pictures, gifs or videos and have fun commenting them.
  • Start a new hobby - something you have always wanted to do or just contrary - newer thought of doing. Singing, songwriting, mandala drawing, dog training, you name it. There is an online community behind almost every activity - whether a public site or a Facebook groupopens in a new tab (or both).

People’s connections are way stronger than physical locations or external matters. As long as you keep your mind open, there is always something extraordinary to try, learn or do. You might discover new information about well-known topics, see your friends from a different perspective or even learn about unexpected angles of your personality. Just remember, whatever you decide to do on-line, take care of your own and your peer safetyopens in a new tab.

Take care and enjoy socializing!

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